Up Your Relationship Tonight
by Katie Rose
Every relationship needs relief from the same old bedroom routine now
and then. Here is a collection of tips to boost the passion points in
Get Wet and Wild
The bath or shower can be more than just a place to get clean! It can
also be a sexy rendezvous to reconnect with your lover. Taking the time
to bathe each other and wash one anotherís hair can be a sensual delight.
Steam up the bathroom with some erotic accessories inviting to both
you and your lover. If you have the available counter space or open
shelves, place scented candles around the room. Keep aromatic bath oils
and waterproof toys close by. Just be sure you have a private place
to store your toys if you have children or
One if by Land...
Keep a set of "signal" sheets (or even just a signal pillow) that you
or your lover can put on the bed to silently request a romantic tryst.
Pick an unusual color, a sexy material like satin or a bold pattern
- or a pillow with a sexy come-hither saying on it.
An Appetite for Love
Prepare a dinner that is a prelude to love wearing nothing but an apron
and a smile. There are so many foods that have been thought to be aphrodisiacs
that you will have no problem planning a menu. Some ideas are oysters,
pine nuts, peaches, grapes, walnuts -- even asparagus - or just serve
something special to the two of you. More important than the food is
that the meal stirs the senses by evoking arousing smells, tastes and
textures. Don't forget to play mood music and put candles in every room.
You don't even have to make it to the bedroom - why not have a change
of sexual venue in the kitchen?
Buy some pretty or provocative stationery - or use your computer to
create an invitation for a romantic date or trip for you and your lover.
Include all of the details including the time, date, what to wear and
where to meet, but keep the romantic event itself a surprise. Address
the envelope to your lover and mail it to him or her. In this era of
instant communication with email, text messaging and cell phones, the
invitation will be a romantic surprise.
Remember when a mix tape was sooo romantic? To get you in the mood,
make a mix CD of all of your favorite sexy songs or fun songs and have
a dance together. Get as wild or as romantic as you wish - your dances
can go as far as you like. You can add a bump-and-grind music and do
your own strip tease or some salsa and do your own forbidden dance of
Reach Out and Touch Someone
Don't forget simple pleasures. Brushing your lover's hair, a light sensual
massage or just cuddling can be extremely sensuous. Touching always
leads to more touching. Play touching games by seeing how lightly you
can run your hands over your lover's body, spell out suggestive words
with your finger and see if he or she can guess what you wrote.
Hide and Seek
Take a sexy picture of yourself and hide it with a suggestive
note in his or her briefcase, wallet or lunch box. Just make sure not
to put it where it may be found by children or coworkers.
Trick or Treat
Costumes are not just for kids at Halloween. There are so many sexy
costumes out there for men and women. Try role playing as a pilot and
a stewardess - or a teacher and a schoolgirl - or a real estate agent
and a prospective home buyer. The possibilities are endless. Fantasy
foreplay can lead you to realms of spiciness you never knew existed.
Let your imagination run wild.
Keep your bedroom off limits for everything except sleep and romance.
Do not allow it to be a center of the household where you write bills
or do work, it should be a haven for you and your lover and a stress-free
zone where you enjoy one another and your relationship. Use soft colors
and fabrics, fresh cut flowers on your nightstand, mirrors and your
favorite art - anything to create an atmosphere of relaxation and sensuality.
Copyright 2005 Katie
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