Some Men Don't Want To Commit
If you are dating, engaged, or still
trying to find Mr. Right, then this message is for you - Why some men
do not want to commit or find it very difficult to commit to women they
supposedly love. This topic is quite puzzling to most single women.
You feel that a man who professes to love you ought to commit to you
with ease. Here are some of the reasons why some men behave this way:
"Why commit when I am getting the
goods free of charge?" - A lot of men, if given the opportunity, will
sow their wild oats until hell freezes over. These men are like kids
in a candy store - they just don't know how to choose when there are
so many varieties to choose from. It is more exciting for them to keep
you as one of their concubines, rather than get tied down and lose out
on the opportunity to sample the delicious lovelies out there.
"What if I commit too soon and miss
out on the most beautiful woman I have ever met?" This is the kind of
internal talk that goes on in the head of the guy that is finding it
difficult to commit. You may be the nicest person they have ever met,
but something tells them that there may be someone else out there who
is more beautiful, sexier, freakier, and just plain nicer.
Past hurtful experience that makes
it difficult to commit - Some men want to commit to women, but find
it very difficult to do so as a result of being dumped, cheated on,
or simply being disappointed by someone they loved with all their heart.
The hurtful experience could also be from childhood, such as having
parents that divorced .
This sometimes makes a men feel
that it is useless to commit to any woman, when there is the possibility
that the relationship could break up. The relationship that once was
his rock and foundation - his parent's - disintegrated. This type of
man is usually a good man, but as a result of the bad relationship experience,
has become gun shy. With some patience, love and the passage of time,
this kind of man usually overcomes his commitment phobia.
Fear of taking on responsibility
- With commitment comes responsibility, and there are some men who just
hate to take on the kinds of responsibility that come with marriage
and childbirth. They find it much easier to remain single.
Your inability to satisfy him in
bed - This is an often-neglected reason why a man may not want to commit
to a woman. Men have this fear that if they are not sexually satisfied
now, when they have not committed to you, it may get even worse when
you get very comfortable after they commit. There is a way to boost
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Just because your man is afraid
of committing does not mean that he cannot commit to you. There is always
a way to get the results you want. You can make yourself so irresistibly
attractive to him that all his inhibitions will just simply melt away.
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Steve Ubah is the author of Passion
Keys - A Woman's Ultimate Guide To Unlocking The Love In A Man's Heart.
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